Making Tiger and Ox Relationship Work Out

Chinese Tiger and Ox make for a trying couple. This is not to say it won't work, but both parties must be truly committed to working things out to make a solid go of it. They are both very different and have different approaches to life. If they are willing, they can actually make their differences work for them.

The Ox's patience will be all important in this relationship, just as the Tiger will need to learn to buckle down to work and not react so impulsively all the time. Both love spending time with family, which creates a strong foundation upon which to build their relationship. Both partners can learn quite a bit in this relationship. The Tiger learns to slow down and smell the roses while the Ox learns to open up to the unpredictability of everyday life.

When this pairing consists of a Tiger man and an Ox woman, this relationship can be particularly challenging. He is headstrong and high strung while she is cautious and methodical. He will have issues about staying put in one job, while she encourages him to slowly build a strong career. In the bedroom they may have issues because of their different approaches.

When this pairing consists of a Tiger woman and an Ox man, both parties have problems making concessions. she wants to be in the limelight while he wants her to stay at home and be domestic. She is inclined to spend freely, which infuriates him. They do get along well in the bedroom, however.

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Ten Commandments and ive Precepts

Ten Commandments

1. You shall have no other gods before me.

2. You shall not make for yourselves an idol.

3. You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God.

4. Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.

5. Honor your father and your mother.

6. You shall not murder.

7. You shall not commit adultery.

8. You shall not steal.

9. You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.

10. You shall not covet.

The Precepts

1. Abstain from destroying life

2. Abstain from stealing

3. Abstain from sexual misconduct

4. Abstain from lies

5. Abstain from intoxicating drinks

The Missing Piece

All of us have our own missing piece that we're looking for to fulfill in life.

I know what I wanted in life is the Perfect Marriage, caused by my broken family condition.

I found out her missing piece today... She does have a complete family... But she lacked of freedom.

What she is really looking for is Freedom.

I was worried, depressed, and wondering about her for the last few days... I was happy when she called today and told me everything is okay now...

But sum up to the end, she just asked me, "Will you support me in whatever I do? Right now my goal is to go far far away..."

She didn't even mentioned me in her goal... She didn't even mentioned Penang.

I accept that we are looking for different things now. All along my goals are all about her, for the Perfect Marriage... And hers, always wanted to go far away, for Freedom.

If she asked me whether will I wait for her...

I would say, "I'm sorry. I won't." Our relationship will end when or if you leave for far far away.

There were just so many things happened before that tells me the kind of person you are. I could've waited, and you would've forgotten about me...

I am heartbroken... But I do love you...

All I can do... treat everyday as if it is our last day together... until you really leave someday...

Dear God,

I prayed for a relationship, and You gave me a distance one...

I thought You are testing me...

I thought that if i would try hard enough, there will be rainbow at the end of my effort...

I was afraid to fall in love... and I did...

I was afraid to fall deeper... and right now i'm at the bottom...

I don't understand why You would make this happen, and going to took it all away from me...

Why do You give me an opportunity here... and not there?

Why if You give me the opportunity here... Why wouldn't You send her to me?

Why...?

Why would You want to give us the happiness... Only to take it away from us...?

Dear God,

Please don't do this to me. I'm not as strong as I seem, or as You believe...

I can't take this test... or this plan.

I don't know what will be left of me if You tear us apart...

I really can't take it....

The feeling now is just like before when we first started out...
I miss her so much that it aches... the strong feeling of wanting to see her so much...

She always wanted me by her side in KL...
Sometimes I just wanted to let go everything here...
And just move down... Get a normal job...
And just be normal...

Aih...
Fate... Playing us like a fool...

I just want her to know... I didn't say that I'll not move down...
I'll do something about it... I will... Do something about it...

It's hard enough to ask...

It's worst when the truth is heard.

Great Start

I'm going to do what I love doing.

But it doesn't come easy.

There's price to pay for this.

Not to talk about achieving my dream...

Just trying to start is hard enough.

Aih...

Lack of capital,

Lack of investors,

and lack of support... financially and mentally.

I think all great entrepreneur faced this before, just like me...

They able to breakthrough and overcome the obstacles,

I know I am no different from them.

I will not give up.

I will not falter!