Turn a friend into a lover

Another article sent by Dino, picked from Men's Health.


Making a move on a good friend requires more careful work than defusing a pipe bomb. One false move and, well, you know. Avoid devastation and fallout with these four expert-approved strategies.

1. Set the scene. Choose a place that's comfortable for both of you, says Logan Levkoff, a sex educator and columnist in New York City. And don't make it a big production. "A lot of guys try to take cues from sappy movies where friends become something more," says Levkoff. "Don't stand outside her window with a boom box over your head."

2. Read her body. Talk less, do more. "Kiss her," says Levkoff. "Sometimes it's easier to break down the barrier physically instead of verbally." But how do you know to go for it? "If her face is close enough that you can lean in, then that's a good sign," she says.

3. Leave your game at the door. She knows about every girl you've dated and every pickup line you've ever used, so no fancy come-ons, Levkoff advises. Look her in the eyes and say, "You know all about me and my past, and I don't want the other girls I've date

Love Quiz

If fall in love, got together, then broke up will feel sad?

If fall in love, didn't get together, and didn't broke up will feel what? And should feel what?

A scene in drama got me think about this...

So the question is... Sad? Disappointed? Or what?

Get Over It and Move On!

Strip clubs and buddies can be your first line of defense, but as therapeutic as they are, you have to go back to that empty home sometime.

Be serious about it.

"Treat a breakup as if you're overcoming an addiction," says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., author of Why We Love. Banish evidence of your ex -- cards, photos, that cursed jug of Woolite. They're the equivalent of a dime bag in the glove compartment, says Fisher.

Next step...

Take a 90-day hiatus from new relationships. Enjoy your unencumbered life: "If you've wanted to go to South America or take sailing lessons, now's your time," says Fisher. Before you know it, you'll be ready to dash yourself on the jagged rocks of love all over again.

From Men's Health.
From Dino. He seems to have a lot of time looking for articles that suit me =.= Speechless to say me i guess.

Man In The Glass

Could be Woman in the Glass too. Understand this poem, to find your true self. It's useful for me, i hope it's useful for all of you too :)

When you get what you want in your struggle for self,
And the world makes you long for a day,
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself,
And see what THAT man has to say.
For if it is not your father or mother or wife
Whose judgment upon you must pass.
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back in the glass.
Some people might think you are a
straight shootin' chum and
call you a wonderful guy,
But the man in the glass says you're only a bum,
If you can't look him straight in the eye.
He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest,
For he's with you dear up to the end. And
you have passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the guy in the glass is your friend
You may fool the whole world down the pathway of
years, and get pats on the back as you pass.
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears
If you have cheated the man in the glass.

Never lie to ourselves. Be who we are, be yourself. Process is important... Results of the process too! Or we will regret someday...

Good Old Days

I got this from Friendster bulletin board... Miss those days so much...


we grew up watching Transformers,
Thundercats, Woody Woodpecker,Smurf,
Chipmunks, Mickey Mouse, Jem,
Mask,Roadrunner,
Ninja Turtles, Voltron, Baja Hitam,
Ultraman.

had to brush our teeths during recess
at
primary school? had to hold plastic
cups, line up with your classmates side
by side and start brushing our teeths
at
some open area... or maybe near some
drain??

do you still remember that we
had 'dentist' rooms where we had to
have our teeths check?and after that
asking each other the result.

not to forget our 'program minum susu'
in primary school.. everybody is
suppose to buy like cartons of milk
that
costed 30 cents.. and you would see
everyone drinking it everyday...

when we get our vaccination,BCG and
everybody is so afraid.

the teachers who would want to punish
us must use yellow rulers to hit us on
our palms?? and the boys use it to show
"power" when teacher is not around.

that a bowl of mee soup or some soup
only costed 50 cents at the school
canteen...

went to some sundry shop near the
school or to the 'roti' man waiting
outside our schools so that we can buy
junk food like chickedees, mamee, ding
dang with some toys in it, 'Ti Kam',
ice-
cream and we would play games like
monopoly, uno, old maid, and all other
card games like that...

another fun time would be during
Pendidikan Jasmani. the boys would
play football while the girls would
play
netball... and it would be like we were
playing in the world cup...

but of course. the best would be main
guli, batu seremban, bottlecaps, ice-
cream sticks, 'Pepsi Cola one-two-
three', Cops and Robbers, main kejar-
kejar duduk.. and for the not so
active,
those kind of 'book games' where we
would use buku latihan to draw and ask
our friends to play...

do you remember the ice-cream tubes
which are actually ice and colouring
that
are sold for 10 to 20 cents.. the
colourful
ones.. where you usually bite off the
top
to glup it down...

waiting for school bus and some waiting
for parents.the long wait and the rush
in the morning.

what about days when we felt like doing
naughty things such as folding papers
so small to make 'lastik' amd shoot
each other... how about throwing
chalks??

back then, micheal jackson was just
turning white.. and still had albums
coming out.. compared to CD's, we were
listening to tapes that sold for
RM9.90...

in computer class, we were still using
black and white computer moniters..
played 'Atari'... maybe SEGA or
NINTENDO...

well, are we all getting older or what?

1) if you understand what you have read
and you are smiling... (I am...)

2) we have friends from school that are
already married... (Yea)

3) we shake our heads everytime we
see high school students fussing about
their handphones in school.. (and not to forget those wannabe)

4) we don't hang on phone with our
friends for hours a day talking about
nothing... (errr... i do... With Dino)

5) when we meet back with our friends
from time to time, we feel excited and
happy talking about old times, the
funny 'adventures' or stories that we
experienced as a kid.. (i still talked about it with Dino)

6) last but not least, that when you
read
this, you would think of all the happy
&
sad memories that you have
experienced when you were still a kid
and would think of forwarding this to
your old friends that you have known
since forever... i'm sure they would
have
a huge smile on their face after
reading
this..... (i wonder :)


Well... it's much better than secondary school where we thought we were so great. Back then, we were stupid. So stupid and naive. No relationship problem (if got means deep shit. I'm from all boys school.) No money problem (we spend a lil then...) Aih... Now, relationship and money messed up my life.

There's one day, while i was driving on my way home. It was a tired and stressed out day... I looked at the sun set and remembered... If only we could turn back and go back to those good old days... How nice it will be...? I'm not concentrating and end up drove up to the bridge and went for a jalan-jalan (trip) in Butterworth, and paid rm7 for the toll when i need to get back. Oh well... Good old days...

Standards

1) Privileged standard.
2) Respect standard.
3) Mentor standard.
4) Leeched standard.
5) Same standard.
6) Low standard.
7) No standard.

Different people different standard to different people. What's my standard to you?

Your suffering, your tears, your hatred, may not be the cause of others.
It may be your own,
by blaming others.

How much you had changed since then...?
Where is your belief that you had hang on for so long...?
Destroying your own principles is an act to hurt yourself, no difference from cutting your own wrist.

Everything is just an excuse for you to hurt yourself.
You made up everything, you create everything, in your mind,
to justify every wrong decisions you had made.
You feed my own hatred with pain.

Be conscious.
Look at the other side of the coin...
It's not like what you think.
It's not what he/she mean...
It's just a mistake...

Let Go of Hatred, and Learn to Love Again... You can...

Things happened and most of time, we are wondering how it happens?

Searching... looking...

For a reason that could comfort ourselves for things happened.

"Why?" We asked.

Sometimes, we just have to accept, there could be no reason.

All we can do, accept that it happened and ask no more, and just carry on. Forget it, let it be.

Time will let us know what we seek to know...

All we have to do, endure through it. Things will better tomorrow...

Break It Off

Every morning must listen to Break It Off by Sean Paul ft Rihanna to make feel good. A lot of feeling and memories in the song. Huwah~~~ Makes me feel shaking shaking in Mambo.

I read the lyrics... Hmm, check this out! The last verse,

Boy (Uh huh)
The way you push up on me I
Whan get da roughest wine I dun know ya like (ay, yo, ay)
Fuh sho we gonna break it off tonight (yoga macchugga uh)
Ooooo boy
We really shouldn't waste no time (sing it)
(1)Come let me back up on ya dancehall's tight (bring it)
And (2)I'm hopin baby u don't mind
(3)Cuz I really wanna break it off tonight (instantaneous)

Let me intrepret:

(1) I wanna ride on you. Woman-on-top position.
(2) I hope you let me ride like Osim igallop.
(3) Cuz i wanna break your dick tonight by riding.

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Critical! Critical!

Critical moment:

1) Almost broke.
2) Bang someone's car. Kancil vs Wira = Kancil win. Roughly RM270 for repair i think =.= *PAID*
3) Still didn't pay my college fee. RM300 =.=
4) Need RM200 for my Certificate graduation ceremony. *PAID*

So, i learned something new today. "Always prepare for emergencies."

Now... How to settle these problems? I will get my salary on 23th, i'll get my profit next month and i need the money urgently.

Hmm... Got some thinking and planning to do.

Sounds dead to me...

Monday:

-Wake up, get myself ready, wear my office clothes, read a sub-chapter of Rich Dad's books.
-Drive to Bishop Street, turning on my favourite channel for the morning, "Rudy and JJ Hitz Morning Crew"
-Got in, count money, work work work. Just keep hearing, "Dua Kosong Dua Dua Kaunter Dua" (Two Zero Two Two Counter Two) and keep repeating, "Good morning madam, how may i help you? Withdraw FD? Oh, please sign here, here and here. Please lend me your IC. Thank you. Have a seat please."
-Lunch time. Sometimes eat with Kazee, sometimes eat with Clement, sometimes eat alone.
-Go back to work and wait for 3.30pm. It's when those stupid customers come during the last minute before the bank is close.
-Bank close, do my backroom stuff, do my balancing, do my duty.
-Say bye bye to my Officer and go home.
-Stay at home, read some books, calculate some stuff.
-Sleep.

Tuesday:

-Same as Monday.

Wednesday:

-Same as Tuesday.

Thursday:

-Same as Wednesday.
-Attend class after work. Managerial accounting.

Friday:

-Same as Thursday.
-Difference is, feeling quite good because i don't have to wake up early the next day. Find something to do and normally, i'll go grab some beer with my friends or alone.

Saturday:

-At night, it's kinda tragic to me if i stay at home. So, clubbing time.

Sunday:

-If there's nice movie to watch, i will be in Queensbay. If not, i will just continue sleeping.

Monday:

-Repeat what i did last week =.=

Accident...

WARNING



Children playing outside the car can cause accident...



and...



Adults playing inside the car can cause CHILDREN!!!



by Accident...

What a Paradise...

After work, feeling pressure, feeling stress, feeling tired...

As you enter your home, the yellowish light... the breezing wind from the opened balcony... You smell something good... You walk into the kitchen, your wife is preparing dinner... You hug her from behind and kiss her on her cheek...

You prepare dinner together...
You eat dinner together...

Chat... Laugh...

Went to sleep together, hugging each other tight tight, giving warmth to each other...

Hm... All pressures, stress and tiredness released.... What a paradise...

Sex and Money

I got two separate dreams today.

I dreamed of making love.

I dreamed of receiving USD1,000 cash.

So, basically i'm in need of love and in need of cash.


To say it in a bad way... i'm horny and greedy =.=

Well, i can't control my dreams... what to do?

If Man Loves Their God, I Love My Goddess

She is paradise.
Her words are magic.
She brings peace.
She brings joy.
She creates hopes.
She gives you confidence.
She let you feel warmth.
She saves you.

What shall you call her?

"Goddess"

Registered Financial Planner

1. What is financial planning?
It is a process or methodology of assisting clients in determining their financial goals, objectives and priorities and the resources to meet them in an optimal and practical manner.

2. What is Registered Financial Planners (RFP) programme?
The Registered Financial Planner (RFP) programme is created by Malaysians for Malaysians and sanctioned by Bank Negara Malaysia.

3. Who are the initial promoters of RFP programme?
The initial promoters of the RFP programme are Life Insurance Association of Malaysia (LIAM), Malaysian Insurance Institute (MII) and National Association of Malaysian Life Insurance and Financial Advisors (NAMLIFA) through the National Body called Malaysian Financial Planning Council (MFPC) for Malaysian financial planning professionals and organisations.

4. What entry requirements or qualifications do I need to have before I can study for the RFP programme?
You need to have a SPM or MCE or GCE (O) Level with passes in at least six (6) subjects, including English and Mathematics;

or

You will also be required to be a contracted agent or involved in the financial services industry with a diploma or a degree qualification;

or

You will also be required to be a contracted agent or involved in the financial services industry without a diploma or a degree qualification but must have at least one (1) year’s experience in life insurance selling or in financial services industry.

5. What working experience do I need to possess before I am considered, qualified to sit and take the RFP programme?
From Question 4, you need to have at least a SPM, MCE or a GCE (O) Level with passes in at least six (6) subjects, including English and Mathematics.
At least one year’s working experience is required in life insurance selling or in the financial services industry.

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Finally got a relevant reason for me to take my degree. For those who don't know, registered financial planner is not INSURANCE agent and it's a professional job equivalent to an Accountant or Tax Planner. In Singapore, a Registered Financial Planner (RFP) charges S$200 an hour for consultation and currently, i heard, it's still free in Malaysia.

After i got a RFP license, and with a reserve fund of RM200,000 in Bank Negara Malaysia (or don't know what department) i can open a company providing financial service. Oh yeah~~~